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Beth-Lily's Daydream Diaries
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Van Gogh: Poets & Lovers Brings Intimacy and Colour to London’s Winter Art Scene
The London National Gallery’s Van Gogh: Poets & Lovers exhibition is an experience like no other; the rooms are choking on raw, unfiltered emotion and whispering an unspoken language of love. The meticulously curated collection features 61 paintings and introduces us to a new version of Van Gogh, a man who tenderly observed human connection and intimacy, and preserved it in his lifetime of work shown in each room, which is perhaps especially relevant in the current climat

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Jan 83 min read
Colchester supports young women in the lead-up to International Women’s Day!
Full of historical, feminist icons, Colchester Town is buzzing with International Women’s Day events, supporting the young women who live there. As International Women’s Day approaches once again, Colchester is full of bright, young women who know what it’s like to feel proud to be a woman. Despite it being pegged as the most miserable town in the UK, plenty of girls have a reason to smile as they get ready to visit their friends and post social media updates thanking the won

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Jan 82 min read


How will Gen-Z’s love for sustainable fashion impact the fashion world?
The rise in second-hand clothing is impacting what we wear and where we buy it from; could this change the way fast fashion brands have to work? The boom of sustainability is changing the fashion world- gone are the days when it was shameful to shop secondhand. Now, giving clothes a second life is one of the coolest things you can do. By 2029, the fast fashion market is expected to grow by 20%. The second-hand market, on the other hand, stands at 185%. This rise in sustainab

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Jan 84 min read
Marathons see a surge in young participants as the fitness trend grows
Over a quarter of the UK population want to start or are considering running more in 2025 and with runners competing in ultra-marathons, it’s no surprise more people want to join in on the challenge. Young people are proving that running was more than just a lockdown fad- it seems like everyone is running marathons this year. In fact, this past April, the London Marathon had 56,000 people finish the race, their highest number yet, and that’s only a small percentage of the

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Jan 83 min read


Classism In The Classroom: How Private Schools Encourage Societal Divides
The issue of classism in the UK is more than a legacy; it’s deeply embedded in modern society, and perhaps nowhere is this more apparent than in the harsh divide between private and public schools. Private schools were once institutions for the aristocratic British elites and have since evolved into a system that openly affirms that access to better opportunities is determined mostly by wealth and privilege. As these institutions become more exclusive, we must consider wheth

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Jan 85 min read


Is the UK’s Transphobia a Reflection of 1980s Homophobia?
There’s been a disturbing rise in transphobia in the UK over the last few years, leaving the transgender community feeling more alone and under threat than ever before. Terrifyingly, in the year ending March 2023, there were 4732 recorded hate crimes against transgender people. This is an 11% increase from the previous year, and doesn’t even factor in the unreported incidents. The Home Office linked this surge in violence to growing hostility from the media and politicians. I

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Jan 85 min read


Comparison Is The Thief Of All Joy: Learning To Focus On Watering My Own Grass
They say comparison is the thief of all joy, and I wholeheartedly believe that. Everything I do at the minute stems from comparisons.

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Feb 20, 20255 min read


Your New Life Will Cost You Your Old Life: Life After University
I thought after graduation I would be a fully-fledged adult. Instead, I work in hospitality, and I keep waiting for my life to begin.

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Feb 13, 20253 min read


The Rise of Revenge Porn
“You know he filmed you during sex? From behind?”
When I think back to that night, I remember every detail. I don’t think you ever forget.

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Sep 9, 20248 min read


I'm Thinking Of Leaving You: How To Know If The Relationship Is Done
Relationships are often over before they’ve actually ended; I look at some of the ways we know it’s time to call time.

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Jul 17, 20242 min read


The Second Year Of Grief
The second year of grief has been, unsurprisingly, nothing like the first, other than the sameness of looking at a calendar to find...

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Jun 16, 20244 min read


The Trials and Tribulations of Long Distance
Long distance is one of the most controversial kinds of relationships. Specifically, long distance whilst at university; anyone who's...

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Jul 31, 20234 min read


Grief: One Year On
It has been a little over a year since my Dad died unexpectedly. There is a hollowness inside me that only seems to get bigger each year,...

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Jul 25, 20233 min read


When is sex more than sex?
When is sex more than sex? Hook-up culture is still so divided; if I talk about one-night stands at work, my younger colleagues applaud...

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Mar 27, 20234 min read


stop killing yourself to be cool
i’m tired of trying so hard to keep up with being cool

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Oct 14, 20223 min read


Grief, Death & Aloneness
My dad died last week. I think since then my life’s been a huge blur; I spent so long worrying about him and trying to think of how I...

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Jun 26, 20223 min read


A Summer Of Better Mental Health
Summer is the worst for my hair but the best for my mood. I feel like I’ve been in a huge slump for the last six months, and I’m only...

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May 28, 20222 min read


Breakups & Beauty Standards
I think breakups are the worst thing in the world & I truly hope I never have another. When I got broken up with in November last year I...

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May 13, 20222 min read


Finishing First Year
It feels like I blinked and I’ve managed to finish first year (sort of). Honestly, I’m really surprised I made it this far and how...

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May 4, 20224 min read
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